A wedding is that glorious event which takes place at least once in the life of most everyone. It is the promise made by two people in love to spend the rest of their lives with each other, and stand strong with each other in happiness and in sadness.
It is said that a wedding is ‘the memorable event’ which takes place in the life of the people. But again, it is not just a union of two people, it is, in fact, a union of two different families and their cultures and traditions. But what really makes a marriage event so memorable? Ever thought about it?
Wedding or call it marriage is an event full of fun, love, emotions. But the most important ode of any wedding ceremony is its rituals. You could say marriage is the biryani and these rituals are the spices of this biryani.
No marriage could be complete without the spice of ritual in it. And these rituals turn a marriage ceremony into the most memorable event of one’s life. The emotions witness during these rituals is the true essence of any marriage.
Following are the most common traditional rituals of any Indian marriage:
- Engagement ceremony: An engagement ceremony is a pre-wedding ritual according to Indian cultures, two people officially take the decision of being part of each other’s life by exchanging rings.
- Mehndi ceremony: This is again a pre-wedding ritual celebrated by the bride’s family, by applying Mehndi on the bride’s hands and legs for the marriage. Henna, most commonly known as Mehndi is also applied by other females of the bride’s and groom’s families.
- Haldi ceremony: Haldi ceremony is the most enjoyed pre-wedding ritual in the entire marriage event. During this ritual, the would-be bridegrooms have applied Haldi or the turmeric paste. In India, it is strongly believed that Haldi makes the bride’s and groom’s skin glow.
- Sangeet ceremony: Another most celebrated and enjoyed pre-wedding ritual in Indian marriages is the Sangeet ceremony which involves singing and dancing and lots and lots of music.
- Marriage ceremony: Though the whole marriage event includes many rituals to enjoy, this is the main ritual and most beautiful one at that. It is this ritual which binds two people as one forever.
Apart from these most common rituals, the couples today have incorporated some other activities like a pre-wedding photo shoot, re-creation of old pictures, etc. All these activities and rituals together make a wedding event memorable, not just for the bride and the groom but for their families as well.
Let us now have a look at some of the modern and in trend activities that the bride and groom incorporate into their wedding ceremony to make it more special and memorable.
- The Wedding Theme
A theme wedding is what we can call the sensation these days. The bridegrooms have set a trend of engaging themes in their wedding to make it a lot more happening, fun and beautiful. Some of the examples from the theme bucket are:
- Pastel wedding – soft, soothing, milky colours
- Summer wedding – blue, pink, rose
- Weddings at fall – orange, ivory, cranberry
- Similar interest (of the bridegroom) theme – food, sports
- Movie theme
- The Dream Dress
One of the very important moments which makes a wedding memorable is when you find your dream dress. Every girl wishes to look at the most beautiful girl in the room on the day of her wedding. And so every girl has a dream dress for her ‘The Day’. Girls most precisely set themselves on the hunt for this dream dress and once they find it, it actually becomes a moment to be cherished for life.
- Creative and Innovative Invitation Cards
Preparing a guest list is hard, but then inviting them is harder. Nobody should be missed out and everybody should feel welcomed. And to get this done right, the bridegrooms have adopted a new way by creating innovative invitation cards. These cards leave an impression on the guests and make them look forward to attending your special day, thus making it memorable for you.
- Beautiful Wedding Venue
Location. The place where the couple decides to get hitched holds a special meaning to both. The wedding venue has to be special and beautiful, be it on a beach, a church or jazz hall. It’s because the venue is one thing which pops up while cherishing these moments later.
- The Grand Entry
The couple’s entrance is a special way to stand out. Couples today leave an impression with their goddamn fabulous entries which makes their wedding an extremely memorable event for them for a lifetime. Be it an entry flash-mob style, or the trending swag style. The couple makes it a point to drop a bomb with their grand entrance.
- The Perfect Playlist
Another moment to cherish is when the DJ hits the right song for the couple which most of the time is dedicated to either one. So suffice to say perfect playlist is a must to make this special day more memorable the couple.
- Trending on Social Media
The current fever on the couples, in order to make the wedding memorable, is of social media. In fact, the couples today don’t just make their wedding memorable for themselves but they do it for the world as well. The current social media trend of check-in, drones, even the Hashtags (where bridegroom create their own wedding Hashtags) and the brides setting a benchmark by creating their “on it” video while getting reading for the day, is creating the buzz. Just like #theweddingcasa
- Pre-wedding, Wedding & Post-wedding Photoshoot
Photo shoots are a must in wedding ceremonies, but the modern couples now have taken it a level up by having a pre-wedding, wedding, and post-wedding photo shoots along with the various candid one during the ceremony. These pictures remain as the souvenirs of those beautiful moments lived during the wedding.
All of these variant wedding trends make your wedding day more special and even more memorable.
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